Apply for couples coaching | Dean Blankfield

First, the two of you.

Who you both are, and the best way to reach each of you. You're filling this out for both of you.

Your first name *

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Your last name *

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Your email *

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What country are you based in? *

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Instagram or Facebook handle

Optional. A social handle just helps me get a sense of you.

Your partner's first name *

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Your partner's email *

So I can arrange their own call. Make sure they're happy to be contacted.

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One application, both of you. Your partner doesn't need to fill anything out, but the work only begins if you're both genuinely willing. Each of you has your own private call before we start.

Where are you two at? *

Dating Engaged or married Living together Long-distance, or it's complicated right now

Please choose one.

Which of you leans which way? *

There are no wrong answers, and most couples are a mix. Just go with what feels truest right now.

I'm more the anxious one, they pull away I'm more the avoidant one, they reach We swap, depending on the moment Not sure yet

Please choose one.

Why now?

This is the part that matters most. Be specific and honest. It's what tells me whether I can actually help.

What's brought you here now? Why are you reaching out today, rather than a month ago or a month from now? *

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What exactly is the problem you want solved between you? *

Be as specific as you can. Not "we argue," but the actual thing that keeps happening.

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What is this costing the two of you right now, and what happens if it doesn't change? *

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The pattern, and what you've tried.

The loop that keeps repeating between you, and what you've already reached for.

Describe the loop you two fall into. What's the same fight, underneath the different versions of it? *

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Have you worked on this before, together or separately, with a therapist, couples counsellor or coach? *

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If so, what worked well and why?

And what didn't work well, and why?

Your why, and the investment.

The last few questions, then how the work is structured.

How willing are you both to look honestly at your own part in this, rather than focusing on the other person? *

Be honest about each of you. This is the single biggest predictor of whether the work lands.

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What would make this 6 week container a success for the two of you? *

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The investment

It works in two simple steps. You each have your own call to uncover what's driving the dynamic, and if it's a fit for all three of us, we begin the six weeks together.

Initial 1:1 call, one each $300 / person

You each have your own private call, so I hear both sides honestly and find the root of what's going on. You both walk away with perspective and clarity, either way.

If it's a fit and I know I can help the two of you, I'll offer you a place. The decision is always yours, together.

The 6 week couples container $4,000 / couple

If you're offered a place to work closely with me and you both choose to take it, this is where the work happens.

Payment plans are available. And if you're committed to doing the work but the money is the one thing in the way, I offer a limited number of subsidised places. Don't let that alone stop you applying. Prices in USD.

Knowing this, are you both in a position to commit to the investment if accepted? *

Yes, we're both ready Yes, once the calls confirm it's the right fit for us We're committed, but we'd need a subsidised place to make it work

Please choose one.

Step 1 of 4

Application received.

Thank you for being honest. I read every application myself, and if it feels like a fit, I'll be in touch by email to arrange a private call for each of you. If you don't hear from me, it simply means it isn't the right fit right now.

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Back to couples coaching

Apply for couples coaching.

First, the two of you.

Why now?

The pattern, and what you've tried.

Your why, and the investment.

Application received.